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How a Free Profiling Session Can Help You Find the One

GaiGai Profiling Session

You’ve been thinking about trying out a customised dating service to find your perfect date, but you’re not sure how it works. Well, the first step is to go for a complimentary profiling session.

What is a Profiling Session?

It is an opportunity for you to find out if we can help you find your best possible match.

In dating, what are the things that are important to YOU?

We offer both ONLINE (on Zoom) and IN-PERSON (at our office) Complimentary Profiling Sessions.

During a profiling session, you’ll have a one-on-one meeting with one of our relationship managers.

What Will Happen:

  • You’ll get to ask them all the questions you have
    • How much does it cost? What are the options? What requirements can I make and will you fulfil them? 
  • They’ll ask you questions about your values, life goals, life perspectives, interests, lifestyle, dating expectations, needs, preferences, dating history and more.
    • This information will help us create a personalised profile for you.
    • A personalised profile will give us a clear picture of who you are and what you’re looking for. This will help us determine (and help you find out) if we’re able to meet your needs and expectations with our extensive database of members.
  • Find out about our 6Fs Framework Matching Method that you will not get anywhere else

*Did you know? GaiGai has one of the largest databases among other legalised dating companies in Singapore. 

What Are the Benefits of Going for a Profiling Session?

You will:

Gain Valuable Self-Knowledge

And What You’re Looking For in a Relationship

>> Do you know what you really want from dating and relationships? 

>> What are your strengths and weaknesses? 

>> What exactly do you want a relationship to provide you?

Figuring out the dating process yourself is exhausting. Many singles feel lost and confused after several dates that didn’t go as they had hoped. At GaiGai, we encourage our members to focus on what’s important while we do some of the heavy lifting. Going for a profiling session will let us provide you with valuable insights into yourself, which will aid you in finding your best possible match based on compatibility. 

Get Expert Advice on Your Dating Journey 

At GaiGai, we understand that your dating history, needs and concerns are private to you. A profiling session is a great way to talk through your confidential dating needs and concerns with a professional. Apart from lending you a listening ear, our relationship managers can help you identify where you are on your dating journey and your next best steps. 

>> Are you ready to date (again)? 

>> Are you ready for a committed relationship or should you wait a little longer?

>> Do you have any unresolved issues or trauma you need to address in order to find success in the dating world? 

We know the dating journey can seem complicated. We can help you navigate your way through this process by simplifying and making clearer where you are and what to aim for next.

Discover Your Dating Potential & Ways to Increase It

>> In your current state, what are your current chances of scoring your ideal date? 

>> Is there any way to increase your chances of landing your desired date? How? 

>> Who are you currently most compatible with? 

>> How should you tweak your current lifestyle or expectations to increase your dating potential if need be? 

These are questions that all singles have in their minds. If you’d like to find out your answers via a series of database calculations (and not another biased opinion), going for a profiling session will be your best bet. Once your profile is in, our matchmakers will run it against other profiles in our database for your current dating potential insights. 

NO Hard Selling 

We believe that dating should be stress free. We won’t pressure you into buying a dating package. Our profiling session is all about giving you the information and advice you need to make an informed decision about your dating future.

Let Us Tailor a Curated Dating Experience For You

According to your specific needs and preferences

If you decide to proceed with a dating package after your profiling session, you’ll be matched for one-to-one dates. You will get to meet someone according to your profile and specifications. We’ll take care of everything, so all you have to do is show up and enjoy your date!

Sounds good? 

If you’re ready to reap these benefits for yourself, book a free profiling session with us today!


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The First Date Style Guide Every Woman Needs

When it comes to dressing for your first date, it’s important to choose an outfit that makes you feel confident and attractive. 

So, what’s the best way to dress for a first date? Well, that depends on the type of man you’re dating, and the type of lady you are. Some guys prefer a more casual look, while others are drawn to women who dress up a little more.

In this style guide, we’ll give you three looks that are always sure to impress, along with tips on how to style each look for your specific date.

Style #1
The Girl Next Door

Casual and Cool

There’s something about the girl next door style that just creates warm and fuzzy feelings in men’s hearts. It’s natural, effortless, and always looks good. If you’re looking to encourage a man to be more receptive and open to you on your next first date, this is the style for you.

What You’ll Need

  • Messy bun
    • With a sweet-looking hair tie or claw clip 
  • A light, airy blouse, or a crop top
  • Jeans 
  • Flats or Sandal Heels
  • Makeup Looks
    • Natural, No-makeup makeup
    • French Girl Look: Minimal makeup, but with a blotted red lip
Moodboard The Girl Next Door

You should wear this style if you…

  • Are comfortable in your own skin
  • Prefer to spend minimal time dressing up
  • Do not like ultra-feminine styles, and prefer something neutral

You should NOT wear this style if you…

  • Like to dress up and look absolutely perfect
  • Want to turn heads  
  • Have a colourful personality, and would suit more distinctive, specific styles. 

Style #2
The Sexy Siren

Power Red

Go for this look if you’re looking to feel sexy and powerful on your first date. This look is all about commanding attention. Men love this style because it exudes strength and femininity at the same time. It shows that you’re unapologetically yourself. What’s more, science has proven that red on women drives men wild.

What You’ll Need

  • A little black dress
    • Or any other dressy outfit that incorporates darker tones
  • Makeup Looks: 
    • Soft Glam
    • Pin-Up Look
    • MUST: A Red Lipstick that suits your skin tone 
  • Red nail polish that suits your skin tone
  • Heels

*If you’re unsure which red suits your skin tone, do consider consulting Store Assistants at makeup counters, trying on several before buying, or leaving all this work to a professional image coach who will guide you instead.

>>Click here to contact us in order to find out more about professional image styling to upgrade your look.

Moodboard The Sexy Siren

You should wear this style if you…

  • Love the idea of looking classically bold and feminine
  • Do not mind spending time perfecting your makeup and style
  • Are experienced in styling or have an image coach to guide you

You should NOT wear this style if you…

  • Tend to be shy or uncomfortable with attention 
  • Do not know your best shade of red
  • Have a more relaxed or casual style or personality

Style #3
The Glamorous Goddess

Feminine and Flirty

You can’t go wrong with a sundress when dressing for a first date. There are endless memes on how much men love sundresses. Sundresses are both functional and incredibly cute. They are the perfect in-between – not too casual and not too dressy. Men will always fawn over a woman in a sundress because they are a breath of fresh air. They’re flattering on every woman.

What You’ll Need

  • A sundress in a bright colour or floral pattern 
  • Natural hair worn down
    • Or soft waves 
  • Makeup Looks: 
    • Korean Popsicle lips 
    • Natural makeup with some shimmer
    • Optional: add a pop of colour with light/pastel coloured eyeshadows, or a vibrant coloured but soft eyeliner
  • Necklace and Earrings 
  • Wedges or sandals
Moodboard The Glamorous Goddess

You should wear this style if you…

  • Want to feel pretty and feminine 
  • Want to show off your curves
  • Would like to come across as warm and inviting

You should NOT wear this style if you…

  • Tend to be self-conscious about your hips or stomach
  • Are not comfortable in dresses
  • Have a more edgy style or vibe

Conclusion

When it comes to a first date, one of the most important things you can do is dress well. You should dress well not just for the other person, but more importantly, for yourself. You want to look your best, and feel your best. After all, you never know where things might lead.

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Interested in 1-1 Personal Image Styling Sessions or Workshops?

Interested in 1-1 styling advice for your own body type? Want a certified image stylist to bring you around shopping for your best clothes? Want to receive personalised, curated advice on how to dress to look your best? *Want to find out what’s YOUR best shade of red?

>>Click here to contact us in order to find out more about personal styling for yourself.

Psst! Don’t have a Date yet?

Perhaps you are simply too busy to meet new people. Or there just aren’t enough opportunities in your life to meet a potential lady whom you may click well with. At GaiGai, we match dates up according to compatibility and individual members’ criteria, which will aid in creating that spark you’re looking for.

>>Click here to sign up for a FREE profiling session to find out if there are profiles in our database that are compatible with yours.

Want to join a GaiGai Event?

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>>Click here to check out our latest events.

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MEN’S OUTFIT STYLE GUIDE: THE TOP 3 LOOKS WOMEN LOVE

You’ve scored a date with the lovely lady you’ve been eyeing for weeks. Or, you’re eyeing a lady you’ve just met and now want to draw her attention to you. 

First impressions are everything. It takes just 7 seconds for someone to form a solid first impression of you. So…the pressure is on to make a good impression on the woman you’re eyeing. What should you wear?

You want to dress in a way that makes you feel confident and comfortable, while also impressing your date or crush. So what are the top 3 looks women love? We’ve got you covered.

Check out our simple style guide for men, and choose an outfit that will make you look and feel your best.

LOOK #1
THE CLASSIC GENTLEMAN

You’re a classic gentleman. You like to enjoy the finer things in life and aim for the best. You’re always well-dressed, and you know how to make a woman feel special.

This look is all about sophistication and a timeless style. When you walk into a room, you want people to take notice. You’re the man with presence.

What You’ll Need

  • A fitted suit in a dark colour, like black,  navy blue, dark grey or dark brown
  • A dress shirt in white, cream or light blue
  • Dress shoes

Women Love This Style Because…

  • You look polished and put-together
  • You have a sense of style that’s both classic and timeless
  • You’re the type of man who knows how to take care of himself…and take care of the woman he loves
Moodboard The Classic Gentleman first date style guide for men

Who should wear this style:

  • Men who want to put his best foot forward 
  • Those with a high achiever attitude 
  • Men who prefer traditional courting and romance
  • Men who can present themselves in a confident way, speak eloquently, with a charming or commanding presence.

Who should NOT wear this style:

  • Men who want to appear casual or trendy
  • Those who are attracted to the simpler things in life 
  • Men with a more relaxed style and looking for a partner who matches that laid back vibe 
  • Men who tend to feel nervous around ladies he likes

Look #2: The Modern Man

Let’s take a look at the modern man. This is a style that’s all about looking put together without trying too hard.

What You’ll Need

  • Well-fitting shirt
  • Jeans or trousers
  • (Optional) Plaid or Chequered shirt jacket – nothing too flashy

Women Love This Style Because…

  • It’s very clean and timeless. 
  • Shows that you’re realistically put together and have your life together. 
  • Suggests that you’re a balanced guy who puts in some effort in looking presentable, yet may be spending his time on other projects and hobbies.
Moodboard The Modern Man first date style guide for men

Who should wear this style:

  • Men who want to look stylish without too much effort 
  • Those who haven’t figured out their specific style 
  • Men who prefer simplicity, but still have to make a good impression 
  • Men on a budget, as such clothing can be found everywhere at varying prices

Who should NOT wear this style:

  • Men who have decided on a specific style should follow their own unique style instead
  • Men with a very interesting personality or background should dress less generic and incorporate elements (accessories) of who they are 
    • Ie men working in arts may choose to dress with prints or in a more flamboyant way
  • Men who prefer to look professional and polished

Look #3: The Creative Type

The creative type look is all about being yourself and expressing your personality. The possibilities are endless when it comes to styling for this type. 

What You’ll Need

  • A few items (2 or more) with an element of flashiness.
  • An item with an element of flashiness 
    • Shirt with prints 
    • Or Shirt in a bright or pastel colour 
    • Or Pants in a bright or pastel colour 
    • Accessories
      • Piercings 
      • Rings 
      • Necklace(s)
      • Wristbands or Watches 
    • A trendy haircut 
      • Shaved line 
      • Eyebrow cut 
      • Spikes + Slash
    • Trendy shoes to complete the look

Women Love This Style Because…

  • It’s creative and unique. 
  • It shows that you’re not afraid to stand out from the crowd. 
  • It suggests that you have developed your own identity and you are assured in yourself as an individual. In return, you would embrace and respect your woman’s individuality and sense of self.
Moodboard The Creative Type first date style guide for men

Who should wear this style:

  • Men who know they have a unique style, personality or skill
  • Those who are in the art, music, entertainment, or other alternative industries
  • Men who take pride in their individuality and want to stand out from the crowd
  • While this may sound counterintuitive, men who are shy, soft-spoken and tend to make themselves small may want to experiment with this style, as this may help such men come out of their shells. 

Who should NOT wear this style:

  • Men who are more traditional. A cleaner look would suit them better. 
  • Those who do not want to spend time on developing their style as specific styles tend to require some maintenance
  • Men whose values lean towards conformity rather than individualism
  • Men who find it cumbersome to wear only 1-2 accessories.

Conclusion

When planning your first date outfit, it’s important to dress in a way that makes you feel confident and comfortable. These three looks are all stylish and sure to make an impression on your date or crush.

So, don’t wait any longer – start planning your outfit today and wow her with your style and presentation.

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Psst! Don’t have a Date yet?

Perhaps you are simply too busy to meet new people. Or there just aren’t enough opportunities in your life to meet a potential lady whom you may click well with. At GaiGai, we match dates up according to compatibility and individual members’ criteria, which will aid in creating that spark you’re looking for.

>>Click here to sign up for a FREE profiling session to find out if there are profiles in our database that are compatible with yours.

Want to join a GaiGai Event?

We typically host 2 events per month.

>>Click here to check out our latest events.

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Compatibility vs Chemistry: Which Is More Important in Love?

Do you know the difference between compatibility and chemistry?

In love and dating, these two concepts are often confused. People think that if they have chemistry with someone, they’re automatically compatible. But that’s not always the case.

In this article, we’ll break down the difference between compatibility and chemistry, as well as their pros and cons, so you can decide which is more important to you.

What Is Compatibility?

Jigsaw puzzle. Compatibility is like 2 pieces of a jigsaw puzzle fitting together.

In relationships, compatibility is key. What do we mean by compatibility?

Basically, it’s how well you and your partner mesh together. Do you have the same interests? The same values? Are you able to communicate well with each other?

These are all important questions to ask yourself before getting serious with someone. Why? Because if you’re not compatible, you’re going to have a lot of problems down the road.

What Is Chemistry?

Good chemistry causes a spark.

Chemistry is all about that elusive spark—that something that makes you feel alive when you’re around the person. It’s hard to describe, but you just know it when you feel it. You might be compatible with someone on paper, but that doesn’t mean you have chemistry. You only know whether you have chemistry with someone once you spend sufficient time with them.

Compatibility vs Chemistry: Pros and Cons

A weighing scale suggests you need to find the right balance of pros and cons for yourself.

Compatibility

PROSCONS

Measurable:
You can quantify compatibility by looking at factors like interests, beliefs, and goals.
Can Lack Natural Passion:
If the couple does not put in effort to maintain romance, the relationship can be monotonous and boring.

Stable:
A good foundation of compatibility can make a relationship more consistent. This is the basis for a committed relationship.
May Not be Love at First Sight:
The couple will have to grow their love for each other over time.

Meaningful Conversations:
People who are compatible tend to delve into deeper conversations more quickly. Such conversations will also result in a stronger bond. 		Lack of Polarity:
Attraction can happen on other levels, but there may be little polarity (attraction of opposites). 

Chemistry

PROSCONS

Passionate:
Chemistry can be intense and passionate.
Be Prepared for The Lows:
Chemistry can be a roller coaster ride, with a lot of highs and lows. It will not be very pleasant when the lows hit.

The Spark:
Chemistry can make you feel alive, especially in the beginning.
Volatile:
Chemistry, with the absence of compatibility, can lead to drama and instability.

Can Overcome Odds:
Chemistry can help you be less critical of the other person’s shortcomings as no one is perfect.  		Blind to His/Her True Colours:
Chemistry is a high that can be blinding. It can make it difficult to see the other party for who they really are.

Why Compatibility Is More Important Than Chemistry

So, which is more important in love? Compatibility or chemistry? It’s safe to say that both are important, and you need both of them to have a stable and romantic relationship.

However, if we had to choose one to prioritise when in the dating market, we’d say compatibility is more important than chemistry. Let us explain why.

#1 Reason

Prioritising Compatibility is More Practical

Image of couple art. Compatibility

Compatibility gives you a higher chance for a committed relationship. Sure, if you’re only interested in casual flings now, then prioritising chemistry would be common sense. However, for many people who are interested in a long-term, committed relationship, compatibility is an easy choice.

Compatibility paves the way for a successful relationship via mutual, effective communication, and a natural appreciation for each other that will grow with time. This is not to say that you can’t have a committed relationship with someone you have chemistry with –  it’s just that it’s harder to maintain a relationship with just chemistry alone. Which comes to our second point…

#2 Reason

Prioritising Compatibility is More Sustainable

Image of couple art. Compatibility

If you want to make a long-term relationship work with just chemistry and little compatibility, be prepared to work hard to overcome many obstacles.

When a couple has little compatibility, many arguments and misunderstandings may arise due to the differences in values, beliefs, life goals, or even just the way they speak. This means that in order for the relationship to survive, both parties must be willing and mature enough to resolve arguments amiably and be able to put themselves in each other’s shoes.

If that sounds like too much work for you, then it may be better to look for someone who is more compatible with you. 

#3 Reason

Chemistry is Fleeting 

Image of broken heart. Happens when a spark fades due to fleeting chemistry alone.

Chemistry might fade. Alone, it is all about feelings, and those feelings can change on a dime, especially if and once you find out that the other party is rarely on the same page as you.

But compatibility is based on factors like shared values and goals, which are much more stable and long-lasting as our outlook on life tends to solidify once we reach a certain stage in adulthood.

Conclusion

In dating and love, both compatibility and chemistry are important. The best case scenario is when you find a date or partner whom you are both compatible and have chemistry with.

However, we don’t always get the best case scenario. 

Therefore, in our opinion, compatibility is more important to prioritise if you’re in the dating market. After all, you can’t build a strong relationship on chemistry alone – you need to be compatible too.

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Want to skip the tedious work of finding a date you’re compatible with?

>>Click here to sign up for a FREE profiling session to find out if there are profiles in our database that are compatible with yours.

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Event Recap: Singles Craft Workshop [GaiGai X The Rainbow Artisan]

Details

Last Friday night, our GaiGai team held a Singles Craft Workshop Event at Goodman Arts Centre. We collaborated with The Rainbow Artisan to host this Singles Meet Event.

Our team controlled the number of participants and gender ratio to allow for 1-1 matching in this small-scale event.

Matching Based on Love Languages by GaiGai

Every participant got a custom sheet explaining their match.

Prior to attending the event, we individually contacted participants to complete an in-depth love language quiz to determine their top love languages (Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Physical Touch, Acts of Service, and Receiving Gifts). This allowed our team to match participants up as craft partners for the workshop according to their specific love language scores.

On the day of the workshop, each participant received a personalised sheet pack explaining who they got matched with. We also included several infographics (not shown here) in the sheet pack as part of the GaiGai event experience.

Jesmonite Holder Craft by The Rainbow Artisan

Featuring pictures of some of the participants' creations for the GaiGai event.

Alice from The Rainbow Artisan hosted the crafting part of the workshop. She guided participants step-by-step on how to create phone or card holders. Each participant decided on their own mould, design, and colours. Some decided on a swirl-style, while others created a terrazzo-style holder.

The holders were created using jesmonite. Jesmonite is a safe and toxic-free water-based acrylic resin. It is an eco-friendly and versatile material because it can replicate a diverse range of textures, and create a wide variety of products.

What Participants Got Out of the Event

Each GaiGai event participant got: -their own individual phone or card holder -1 to 1 matching -time to mingle with all the other participants -mini personalised profile packs with infographics

Our team structured the event so that participants would get 1-1 time with their craft partners, and opportunities to get to know all the other participants. Everyone got to take home their polished creations in a cute bag.

Overall Rating by Participants: 4.5/5

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Want to join a GaiGai Event?

We typically host 2 events per month.

>>Click here to check out our latest events.

Want to learn more about love languages?

>>Click here to check out our blog post on the 5 love languages.

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Love Languages – How to Communicate Your Love Effectively

The 5 Love Languages

What are the 5 Love Languages?

The 5 Love Languages are: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Acts of Service, Gift Giving, and Physical Touch.

The five love languages are five different ways of expressing and receiving love. Not everyone communicates love in the same way. Similarly, we all have different ways we prefer to receive love. Everyone can learn to appreciate and accept a bit of each love language, but the majority of us tend to lean towards 1 or 2.

*This concept of love languages was developed by Gary Chapman, Ph.D., in his book ‘The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts’.

Why is it Important to Know This?

Two people who have different love languages will need to find ways to communicate their love for each other effectively.

Understanding the 5 love languages will improve our relationships IF we apply the information in a fruitful way. By knowing the 5 love languages and how to express each of them, you can:

  1. Communicate your needs clearly
  2. Learn to compromise if you and your partner have different love languages
  3. Adjust the way you show your love so your partner responds in a positive way

Breakdown of the 5 Love Languages

Let’s go in depth on the 5 love languages and share the DOs and DON’Ts of each love language.

1) Words of Affirmation

Words mean a lot if your partner has this love language.

If your love language is Words of Affirmation... You should say, "Thanks for taking the garbage out. Love you!". You should not say, "It's about time you took the garbage out. The flies were going to carry it out for you."
❤️DOs💔DON’Ts
Compliment them oftenSpeaking in a harsh tone 
Make them feel appreciated even for the smallest thingsUsing insults, trash talk and criticism
Use positive language to build up the other personPutting your partner down in front of other people

2) Acts of Service

Your partner might have this love language if their motto is “Actions speak louder than words”.

Examples of the love language, Acts of Service, would be washing the dishes and giving your partner a massage.
❤️DOs 💔DON’Ts
Show that you are more than glad to help them outActing burdened or grumbling while helping
Take initiativeLeaving most of the chores to them
Carry out such acts with a smileNot following through your promise of helping them 

3) Gift Giving

This love language isn’t necessarily materialistic. It just means that a meaningful or thoughtful gift makes your partner feel loved and appreciated.

Examples of the love language, Gift Giving, would be writing a note or card, or giving your partner a present.
❤️DOs 💔DON’Ts
Gift sentimental gifts (ie something handmade)Forgetting to bring even a small gift on special occasions
Take note of your partner’s interests and gift something according to thatGiving thoughtless gifts
Wrap up gifts nicely and even write a card to go along with itNot listening to requests, suggestions or “hints”

4) Physical Touch

To people with this love language, nothing is more impactful than the physical touch of their partner.

Examples of the love language, physical touch, would be hugging or holding hands.
❤️DOs 💔DON’Ts
Give regular hugs and kissesBeing physically abusive
(You should never do this no matter what!)
Initiate physical contact
(ie holding hands)		Neglecting your partner or being physically cold
Stay close to them physically on datesRejecting them when they initiate physical contact

5) Quality Time

If this is your partner’s primary language, they don’t just want to be included during this period of time, they want to be the center of your attention.
Examples of the love language, quality time, would be spending time together at a table, chatting and drinking. You can also talk to each other on the phone late at night if you're too busy to meet up.
❤️DOs 💔DON’Ts
Stay present with your partner Not listening when they speak
Show that you are actively listening to them with your eye contact and body language Being distracted when you are doing something together, such as using your phone
Respond when they tell you somethingNot making time regularly to meet up with them

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Need more tips or examples for the love language, ‘Acts of Service’?

>>Click here to check out our TikTok video for new tips and ideas to express your love.

Want to be ready to express your love through ‘Words of Affirmation’?

>>Click here to check out our Instagram post for 10 examples you can choose from.

Want to meet someone with a similar love language style as you?

>>Click to Join our Singles Craft Workshop Event and get matched to a craft partner according to your love language scores!

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