How a Free Profiling Session Can Help You Find the One

GaiGai Profiling Session

You’ve been thinking about trying out a customised dating service to find your perfect date, but you’re not sure how it works. Well, the first step is to go for a complimentary profiling session.

What is a Profiling Session?

It is an opportunity for you to find out if we can help you find your best possible match.

In dating, what are the things that are important to YOU?

We offer both ONLINE (on Zoom) and IN-PERSON (at our office) Complimentary Profiling Sessions.

During a profiling session, you’ll have a one-on-one meeting with one of our relationship managers.

What Will Happen:

  • You’ll get to ask them all the questions you have
    • How much does it cost? What are the options? What requirements can I make and will you fulfil them? 
  • They’ll ask you questions about your values, life goals, life perspectives, interests, lifestyle, dating expectations, needs, preferences, dating history and more.
    • This information will help us create a personalised profile for you.
    • A personalised profile will give us a clear picture of who you are and what you’re looking for. This will help us determine (and help you find out) if we’re able to meet your needs and expectations with our extensive database of members.
  • Find out about our 6Fs Framework Matching Method that you will not get anywhere else

*Did you know? GaiGai has one of the largest databases among other legalised dating companies in Singapore. 

What Are the Benefits of Going for a Profiling Session?

You will:

Gain Valuable Self-Knowledge

And What You’re Looking For in a Relationship

>> Do you know what you really want from dating and relationships? 

>> What are your strengths and weaknesses? 

>> What exactly do you want a relationship to provide you?

Figuring out the dating process yourself is exhausting. Many singles feel lost and confused after several dates that didn’t go as they had hoped. At GaiGai, we encourage our members to focus on what’s important while we do some of the heavy lifting. Going for a profiling session will let us provide you with valuable insights into yourself, which will aid you in finding your best possible match based on compatibility. 

Get Expert Advice on Your Dating Journey 

At GaiGai, we understand that your dating history, needs and concerns are private to you. A profiling session is a great way to talk through your confidential dating needs and concerns with a professional. Apart from lending you a listening ear, our relationship managers can help you identify where you are on your dating journey and your next best steps. 

>> Are you ready to date (again)? 

>> Are you ready for a committed relationship or should you wait a little longer?

>> Do you have any unresolved issues or trauma you need to address in order to find success in the dating world? 

We know the dating journey can seem complicated. We can help you navigate your way through this process by simplifying and making clearer where you are and what to aim for next.

Discover Your Dating Potential & Ways to Increase It

>> In your current state, what are your current chances of scoring your ideal date? 

>> Is there any way to increase your chances of landing your desired date? How? 

>> Who are you currently most compatible with? 

>> How should you tweak your current lifestyle or expectations to increase your dating potential if need be? 

These are questions that all singles have in their minds. If you’d like to find out your answers via a series of database calculations (and not another biased opinion), going for a profiling session will be your best bet. Once your profile is in, our matchmakers will run it against other profiles in our database for your current dating potential insights. 

NO Hard Selling 

We believe that dating should be stress free. We won’t pressure you into buying a dating package. Our profiling session is all about giving you the information and advice you need to make an informed decision about your dating future.

Let Us Tailor a Curated Dating Experience For You

According to your specific needs and preferences

If you decide to proceed with a dating package after your profiling session, you’ll be matched for one-to-one dates. You will get to meet someone according to your profile and specifications. We’ll take care of everything, so all you have to do is show up and enjoy your date!

Sounds good? 

If you’re ready to reap these benefits for yourself, book a free profiling session with us today!

Compatibility vs Chemistry: Which Is More Important in Love?

Do you know the difference between compatibility and chemistry?

In love and dating, these two concepts are often confused. People think that if they have chemistry with someone, they’re automatically compatible. But that’s not always the case.

In this article, we’ll break down the difference between compatibility and chemistry, as well as their pros and cons, so you can decide which is more important to you.

What Is Compatibility?

Jigsaw puzzle. Compatibility is like 2 pieces of a jigsaw puzzle fitting together.

In relationships, compatibility is key. What do we mean by compatibility?

Basically, it’s how well you and your partner mesh together. Do you have the same interests? The same values? Are you able to communicate well with each other?

These are all important questions to ask yourself before getting serious with someone. Why? Because if you’re not compatible, you’re going to have a lot of problems down the road.

What Is Chemistry?

Good chemistry causes a spark.

Chemistry is all about that elusive spark—that something that makes you feel alive when you’re around the person. It’s hard to describe, but you just know it when you feel it. You might be compatible with someone on paper, but that doesn’t mean you have chemistry. You only know whether you have chemistry with someone once you spend sufficient time with them.

Compatibility vs Chemistry: Pros and Cons

A weighing scale suggests you need to find the right balance of pros and cons for yourself.



You can quantify compatibility by looking at factors like interests, beliefs, and goals.

Can Lack Natural Passion:
If the couple does not put in effort to maintain romance, the relationship can be monotonous and boring.

A good foundation of compatibility can make a relationship more consistent. This is the basis for a committed relationship.

May Not be Love at First Sight:
The couple will have to grow their love for each other over time.

Meaningful Conversations:
People who are compatible tend to delve into deeper conversations more quickly. Such conversations will also result in a stronger bond.
Lack of Polarity:
Attraction can happen on other levels, but there may be little polarity (attraction of opposites). 



Chemistry can be intense and passionate.

Be Prepared for The Lows:
Chemistry can be a roller coaster ride, with a lot of highs and lows. It will not be very pleasant when the lows hit.

The Spark:
Chemistry can make you feel alive, especially in the beginning.

Chemistry, with the absence of compatibility, can lead to drama and instability.

Can Overcome Odds:
Chemistry can help you be less critical of the other person’s shortcomings as no one is perfect. 
Blind to His/Her True Colours:
Chemistry is a high that can be blinding. It can make it difficult to see the other party for who they really are.

Why Compatibility Is More Important Than Chemistry

So, which is more important in love? Compatibility or chemistry? It’s safe to say that both are important, and you need both of them to have a stable and romantic relationship.

However, if we had to choose one to prioritise when in the dating market, we’d say compatibility is more important than chemistry. Let us explain why.

#1 Reason

Prioritising Compatibility is More Practical

Image of couple art. Compatibility

Compatibility gives you a higher chance for a committed relationship. Sure, if you’re only interested in casual flings now, then prioritising chemistry would be common sense. However, for many people who are interested in a long-term, committed relationship, compatibility is an easy choice.

Compatibility paves the way for a successful relationship via mutual, effective communication, and a natural appreciation for each other that will grow with time. This is not to say that you can’t have a committed relationship with someone you have chemistry with –  it’s just that it’s harder to maintain a relationship with just chemistry alone. Which comes to our second point…

#2 Reason

Prioritising Compatibility is More Sustainable

Image of couple art. Compatibility

If you want to make a long-term relationship work with just chemistry and little compatibility, be prepared to work hard to overcome many obstacles.

When a couple has little compatibility, many arguments and misunderstandings may arise due to the differences in values, beliefs, life goals, or even just the way they speak. This means that in order for the relationship to survive, both parties must be willing and mature enough to resolve arguments amiably and be able to put themselves in each other’s shoes.

If that sounds like too much work for you, then it may be better to look for someone who is more compatible with you. 

#3 Reason

Chemistry is Fleeting 

Image of broken heart. Happens when a spark fades due to fleeting chemistry alone.

Chemistry might fade. Alone, it is all about feelings, and those feelings can change on a dime, especially if and once you find out that the other party is rarely on the same page as you.

But compatibility is based on factors like shared values and goals, which are much more stable and long-lasting as our outlook on life tends to solidify once we reach a certain stage in adulthood.


In dating and love, both compatibility and chemistry are important. The best case scenario is when you find a date or partner whom you are both compatible and have chemistry with.

However, we don’t always get the best case scenario. 

Therefore, in our opinion, compatibility is more important to prioritise if you’re in the dating market. After all, you can’t build a strong relationship on chemistry alone – you need to be compatible too.

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